A few months ago I did a series on advice for guys on how to be a more attractive person and a good boyfriend. It was really popular and I thought another post on the series would make a good present for you guys. You guys deserve it. This has been a great online community to me and I'm thankful for it.
Obsession. Being outright obsessed to your crush or gf isn't attractive. It's a terrible trap to fall into and admittedly I've fallen into it myself. Your crush or gf will be attracted to you for your self confidence in who you are, your emotional security, and independence, not your emotional dependence or tryharding your relationship. Don't get me wrong, love is good, but don't sacrifice or neglect other friendships or relationships to spend more time with your crush or gf. It's a great thing to have friends and make sure you still spend time with them.
Kissing. Idk how many of you can benefit from this one, but hopefully some of you can. If you aren't here yet, thank me once you're here. Anyway, start slow, don't dive in. Your first kiss is very likely not to be a very good one, but that's fine cause honestly you need to figure each other out first, which happens on the first kiss. If you're sitting on her left, then when you go in for the kiss, tilt your head or "go in" left(and vice versa). MAKE SURE YOUR LIPS AREN'T CHAPPED OR DRY. The kiss will suck if that's the case. Use your lips to gently grab her lip(top or bottom lip, doesn't matter), go back and forth doing that and there you go, you're making out.
Get her exactly want she wants for Xmas. This guarantees her happiness and shows you listen and care for her interests. You don't need to make a big surprise that she'd never expect. Play it safe and you won't be sorry for yourself. My gf didn't tell me what she wanted for Xmas this year, and don't expect yours to either. Pay close attention to anything that she gets excited about, if she repeatedly brings something up or gets excited about it, then it's probably a good Xmas present. Example: I noticed my gf was repeatedly zooming in on a certain owala water bottle when she was scrolling through Insta, online shopping, or just got saw it out in public, so I got her that water bottle. She loved it. There was also something she asked me to get her all the way back in October, didn't mention it ever since, and I got it for her. She didn't think I'd remember it or get it for her, but I came through as a good bf.
Take the advice or leave it, idc. Merry Xmas Fanspo! Hopefully you liked my present to you lol. Who knows, maybe with enough likes and flames, I might pick up the series again...