I haven’t said a thing about the situation on here, my plan was to keep quiet. As a person and I hope I’ve left you all with this feeling is I shave little no hatred or anger for anybody or anything. My own belief is everyone can redeem themselves for anything and the best way to show that is by actions and not thoughts. I’ve experienced enough in life to know not to believe everything on the internet and to not interact with things that can develop into negative situations. Far too many times have I logged into fanspo to find something to talk about and been somewhat upset with the state of the site. It’s gone past the point of return in my opinion.
My usual memo is that if you’ve not done anything to affect me I won’t mention it and up until recently it felt like I didn’t have to talk about this ryan diamond thing or anything. At the end of the day if nothing is taking too seriously on this site nothings harmful and I hoped people were able to take things that way. It has become increasingly clear that it was never gonna be that way. Even if you have a lack of experience in life and you’re young if you’re going to show off your personal life and post your opinions you have to have the maturity of the adult to handle them. The vast majority of all of you are young, and mentally you may think your grown but your not and I see it.
I’m gonna explain the two most vital, most important rules of the internet for you and your gonna have to learn em,
Don’t believe everything you see online
Don’t let peoples comments get to ya and if it does then that means what you’re talking about is too personal and you don’t mention it.
If you can’t do those two things your end up with situations like this. RyanDiamond I have no idea if your lying or not, I have a belief you are but really I don’t care but if you truly, personally are that majorly affected by these comments on fanspo I simply ask you to learn those two rules in your life and move forward, take a break if that’s needed. The hard thing to learn about the internet is it’s a brutal place, you simply do not get let off for your opinions and people are very open. You have pure privacy and I respect everyone who chooses to waive that right but it allows people to be as honest as possible. That’s a blessing and a curse. That’s why I can not sympathise with you in this situation. I do not agree you should be banned. Instead I offer you two things. If you are lying, please take down your posts and offer a simple apology. If you are lying and you don’t then you are feeding into some of the greatest evils in the world. If you are not lying and you are severely affected in the way you have described, no exaggeration, please take my advice, ignore the comments and you won’t have trouble with your time here. Accept that this will happen and it will never change is the best way for you to enjoy your time on the internet and to utilise it to its fullest. It’s brutal, but that’s life.
If you are angry at my comments, I apologise but I take nothing back. I’m being honest on what I think is best for this site. If you don’t agree, you are entitled to your own opinion.
Thankyou.