Parts 1-4 Are All On My Profile
My qualifications for being the one to write this: I have a gf, we’ve been on multiple dates, and we talk daily.
Take my advice or leave it idk, if you don’t think this sort of thing should be on a sports site then spend your time elsewhere, no need to tell me in the comments that I shouldn’t be writing these(I won’t name names).
Gold diggers-A Gold Digger is a person who is only interested in another person because they have desirable earthly possessions that they would automatically inherit or have bestowed upon them just by being their partner. Such possessions include but aren’t limited to money, fame, and access to private events. My advice to you guys is to AVOID gold diggers. They aren’t interested in WHO YOU ARE, but only what you have. If you and your crush start talking only after she finds out how rich you are or how spoiled you are, then you’ve likely found a gold digger.
Readiness-There’s some questions you should ask yourself before you start talking. First, if you lost all communication with your crush for one week, how would it affect you? This question reflects on your emotions towards the person and how often you want to see them. If you want to see that person even once next week, then why not start talking now? Not what should decide if you’re ready, but fs a factor to consider, is if you’re financially ready to date someone. A nice dinner for teenagers imo should cost between 30-50 dollars(after tax and tipping 20%). Concerts, sporting events, and shopping dates will all likely be more expensive than that.
Starting Point-I’m only gonna touch on dating while you’re in school, because dating when you’re out of school is different than dating when you’re in school and most users on this site will relate to dating in school. If your crush goes to a different school than you do, your best bet is to cold approach her or have someone who knows both you and her to introduce you to her. If you get her snap off of a cold approach, that’s a win. If you get her number, you’re already ahead of the game. Some of the benefits to dating someone who doesn’t go to your school is that it’s a more private relationship, if you break up then that news won’t spread like wildfire around your school, and nobody around you can pressure you to do anything or keep up with how you guys are doing. Some of the big downsides to this are that you don’t ever see each other and you have no idea if she’s cheating on you behind your back. If she goes to your school, then start with talking to a lot of people you don’t talk to and her. Being confident starts with being comfortable in uncomfortable situations. Just asking how people’s days are going in the hall or saying hi to new people naturally builds confidence and you’ll be confident when you start talking to her. Hi fives and fist bumps are good for this. Don’t be loud, but be above normal voice level and don’t talk too fast when you’re getting her attention. When you really want to start talking, start a conversation with “How’s your day going?” “What are you listening to?” (If she’s got earbuds in) or “What’s good here/what should I order?” (If you’re at a restaurant or something) These will start some good conversations and if it starts to get awkward, tell her you need to get going, but would love to get her number to continue the conservation. Make sure to make it a little urgent so that she instinctively gives you her number. It’s kind of a Hail Mary, but it’s a more safe one.
Idk what else to write about, so if you guys want a Part 6, then tell me what topics you want o hear about in the comments. This’ll need 20 likes and flames and I’ll need to be in the top 100 GM score for you guys to earn a Part 6. I believe in you guys! Thanks for reading!